Dear life,

No matter how bad you may treat me, I’m not going to become someone I don’t want to, bad, cynical, pessimistic and complaining.

you are taught too many things 

but none of them is about when and where to let go

you have to learn it yourself that sometimes you’d better let go so that you are free and light and relaxed. 

Letting go does not mean you are weak.

Maybe it means something has to be closed and left behind and it’s time to move to another chapter.

Let it go.

As long as you hold on something too tight, you easily get hurt and lose your energy, your sight for what’s really important, and more, you may miss out many interesting detours.

and finally, letting go does not mean giving up. And even it means giving up, so what? Why is everyone, including you, so afraid of giving up and losing? You been let the stupid things which media are trying to pour to your brain that “only success is cool” confuse you. 

Do you still remember one saying “To achieve is to lose”?

It is now 11.30 PM, June 7th 2011. This time tomorrow evening I will be loaded with anxiety, eagerness, worry and determination.

Thursday morning is coming soon. 4 years and a day. 

Keep calm and stand high. Do not lose outside confidence (even inside I may be shaking.)

Things will be fine. 

you are not perfect, girl. You never are.

you will make mistakes, many mistakes, along your way, during your life. And you will need help from others. So don’t withdraw yourself from people. Don’t be too independent.

It’s OK to be weak.

It’s OK to ask for a hand.

It’s OK to rely on a shoulder.

And most of all, always forgive yourself for making mistake, for not being perfect.

Always forgive yourself.

Always be kind and gentle to you. 

all you need to do now is live

don’t worry too much about the future.

Hey, girl. You know what?

this is the society of presence.

so no matter how you feel, what your personality is.

just get dressed and get out.

this world may be full of extroverts, but it doesn’t mean introverts cannot rule it.

Prove how strong you are.

có người đã nói với mình:

” tụi mình có thể không phải là loại người biết hại người khác, nhưng phải biết tự bảo vệ chính mình.”

Ghi nhớ.